No "Baby Daddy Hater" Drama for Successful Single Moms
Successful Single Moms just don't have time for DRAMA!
In the words of a now famous person, "Ain't nobody got time for that!"
Bottom line, any kind of drama is a distraction - especially "Baby Daddy Hater" drama. Chances are "The Baby Daddy" has moved on, or he's made other choices that don't include you... no matter whatever the situation is... you just can't allow all of the "DRAMA" surrounding how you feel emotionally to distract you from what you need to be focusing on - yourself, raising healthy children, your career, your new life, your future!
Take the energy that you spend on DRAMA and put all that energy into focusing on great things you could be doing to rebuild a successful life - going to school, attending seminars to further develop your skill set, training your children, healing, forgiving, working on your dreams, getting back on your life path, etc. (I think you get the picture). You are smart enough and strong enough to make your own money, start your own business, and raise strong children! Just FOCUS!
I'm not being insensitive, breakups are really hard on everyone and can be extremely draining, but unnecessary DRAMA can get you off focus (and cause you to miss out on your life purpose) ... Trust me, I get it... I had enough drama to well...let's just way - it tried me... but I made up in my mind that I was going to redirect my energy and put my focus on things that me and my children would benefit from.
It was difficult at times, but as I disciplined myself, as I worked on my own personal healing, as I prayed, stayed in The Word, meditated, and listened to God - I found myself - not in the DRAMA ZONE - but actually in a place of PEACE!
You've got to get this one down, because living in the "Baby Daddy Hater" Drama Zone will zap you of your life; make you bitter, mean and angry; obsessed with getting revenge and so on! You must see that there is still incredible life ahead of you IF you will get focused on the RIGHT things (again) - yourself, raising healthy children, your career, your new life, your future!
So, instead of being in DRAMA - you can be in PEACE! It's a much better place to be!
So, stop the DRAMA! You have too much to do and SUCCESSFUL SINGLES MOMS don't have time for that! Focus on the more important things! You can do it!!! I did!
The Single Mom's Chronicles Scripture:
Isaiah 26:3 (GNT) You, Lord, give perfect peace to those who keep their purpose firm and put their trust in you.
Isaiah 26:3 (MSG) People with their minds set on you, you keep completely whole, Steady on their feet, because they keep at it and don't quit.